love is patient...

I don't care what religion you are, or if you even have one. This applies to every person who's ever loved past, present or future... This is what love is all about. ACCEPTANCE if you are unable to accept something about someone, and are expecting them to just "grow out of it" or "quit for you", you are sadly mistaken and need to get a grasp on reality that no matter how sexy, awesome or whatever you are... NOBODY will ever be EXACTLY what you want. EVER. There will always be something that bothers you, let it be everyday or once a year.... there will ALWAYS be something. And if you can't accept that person's flaws, seriously, you are NOT meant to be together. You can't expect someone to change for you. You can change for them, if you so choose, but you cannot expect them to just change who/what they are to be with you. Love isn't about changing each other, it's about accepting and loving each other. Acknowledging flaws and taking the good with the bad. Haven't you ever heard wedding vows?! "for better or worse" <- it's not just a fancy thing for saying, hey, it's all good, but in case I decide to be a douche, I want to know you still love me. C'mon people, reality is a nice reference point for love. There will we be better and there will be worse. If you can't take the worst, you can't have that ring! or the honey moon.